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My quest for satisfying lunchbox items continues on Happy to be at Home today.

I found some winners and some losers over the past 2 1/2 weeks. To really meet this challenge, though, we must all band together.  So, if you’ve ever packed a lunch for schoolchildren, or if you have any ideas for packing lunches for schoolchildren, please check it out my entry and leave any ideas here or there.

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A few more things to bring along on a family vacation

Third in a Mom’s Toolbox series on family travel

 

We’ve covered the carry-ons and how to fly through the airport. Today we’ll talk about your big bags. What else do you need… and how do you pack it all?

A few things we always bring:

Carseats/ Boosters— Depending on the age of the child and how many parents are flying, we typically bring a carseat and use it on the plane. This means we already have it for our destination. I have rented carseats and booster seats from the car rental company before which made packing easier, but I typically just pack our own. Carseats and boosters typically do not count in your baggage allowance, but check with your airline to be sure. The policies seem to be changing quickly these days.

Masking Tape-For minor childproofing in a pinch or labeling bottles and sip cups if your child will be in any type of kids club.

Sharpie marker-For labeling almost anything on the go. I label all clothes and anything else that might go with my kids to a kids club setting. I also use the pen to label toys along the way so there isn’t any question  who owns which new car (or whatever else).

Small Plastic Toys– We have found that little plastic toys go a L-O-N-G way for entertainment. Legos, Little People, Fisher Price Snap & Style babies and other small plastic toys are easy to pack and easy to carry to almost anywhere you might be going to entertain at restaurants, in cars or while waiting almost anywhere. Plus, you can use them as bath toys, as well. Throw in a one of the plastic cups the hotel provides and you’ll really be in business at bathtime!

Zipper top plastic bags-For snacking on the go, to carry small toys (and limit what your child is allowed to take with him), to house new collections of rocks, leaves, coins, bottle caps… whatever! I usually grab a handful of the quart size and of the gallon size to take along for whatever. They almost always get used. And don’t forget to keep one quart-sized for liquids at airport security.

Medicines,  dosages and a few first aid items-Save yourself a frantic shopping trip and throw in a few medicines and their dosing cups just in case. We bring fever reducer, pain killer, cough syrup and allergy medicine. I write the appropriate dose on each of the bottles. I also pack antibacterial cream and a few bandages.

A little liquid dishsoap— For cleaning sip cups, bottles and the like.

Flashlight-Find what you need in the dark without waking everyone.

Nightlight-New places can be disorienting. Just don’t forget to pack it when you are coming home, too.

Music-Do your kids listen to music before bed? We travel with an ipod and mini-speakers to soothe away new hotel sounds and help everyone drift off to dreamland.

Books and magazines-If you read to your child at night before bed, continue the trend away, too. The more things you can keep routine, the easier it will be to help your child sleep in a strange place. If you can find a new book or two that covers something you will experience on vacation, even better.

Baby bath soap-Unless I’m staying with a family or know the hotel will provide baby toiletries, I typically throw in a small bottle.

Small travel umbrella-Better to be safe than sorry.

A few toys for the hotel-I almost always go overboard on this one, throwing in too many contingency toys. So this is a reminder for me, too: Toss a few simple toys in for the times you will be just hanging out in the hotel room: winding down before bed, waiting for room service or just waiting while everyone is getting ready. Try to keep it simple here. You won’t be in your room long, but a few toys are always a good idea. That being said, remember that your plans may not always go as you wish. Things can happen beyond your control , causing activities to be cancelled.  A few games might be good to have along in case of rain, sickness or other changes in plans.

Charging cords for anything electronic-and don’t forget to bring them home, too!

One thing we sometimes bring:

Portable crib-Our portable crib rarely travels with us. We usually use the hotel crib or, if visiting friends, we usually use theirs (or a friend of theirs’!). When renting a house, though, check to see if you will need to bring your own. On one beach trip I brought an extra portable crib to use on the beach. I set it up under a canopy so the baby could still nap in the shade while we played with the bigger kids outside.

On the portable crib note, our kids typically sleep in a crib on vacation for few months after they have made the transition to a big bed at home. I find that it helps them sleep better and makes me feel safer, knowing they won’t wake and wander around the hotel room unsupervised.

A few thoughts on packing in general:

Airline baggage allowances are getting pretty strict. Be sure to check your airline’s policies regarding the size, weight and number of bags you will be allowed to check. Then, as you are packing, weigh your suitcases so there won’t be any surprises at the airport. Compare your suitcases empty, too and pack the lighter ones. I have found rolling duffles to be the best for our family because of their weight.

Pack an extra zipper-top bag or duffle for anything extra you might buy so you aren’t stuck paying fines for an overweight bag at the airport.

When deciding what clothes to bring, consider that you can do laundry on the trip. You don’t need to pack clothes for every day.

Depending upon what new treasures you might have acquired on your trip, consider shipping dirty clothes and new purchases home near the end of a trip. The price to ship might be less than the price for checking an extra bag. Check into it.

I put all liquids, even those that are unopened and in shrink wrap, in sealed plastic bags. On our last flight an unopened can of sunscreen somehow sprayed in my bag. I will no longer trust the shrink wrap when all it takes is an extra zip bag.

Remember the flight home. Throw in a few secret goodies to remain hidden until then.

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Second in a Mom’s Toolbox series on traveling with the kids.

With a little preparation, you summer vacation fun CAN begin as soon as you reach the airport.

If you were here Wednesday, your mind is already churning with ideas of what to pack in those carry on bags. Now it’s time to take care of all those other details to make the travel day as great as it can be.

Planning your trip:

When booking your flights, be sure to allow more than enough time for layovers if changing planes will be necessary. This might sound like an obvious one, but really give your flight times some thought. What happens if you miss a connection? Will there be another flight that day? Spending some extra time keeping your kids entertained at the terminal could be much better than missing a flight altogether, so research your options and don’t cut it too short.

In selecting seats, would you rather be near the front of the plane so you don’t have to lug everything as far down the aisle or would it be more important to you to be near the bathroom so you can get there quickly? Or so that you can send a child by himself and still be nearby?

 Some families love the bulkhead seats. These are the seats just behind a wall and do not have seats directly in front of them. These are great for playing on the floor and for extra legroom, but in those seats you must stow everything overhead for takeoff and landing.

 Are you buying everyone a ticket or will your children under 2 sit on your lap? We travel with a carseat for anyone who is under the age of 2 and has his or her own ticket. Lugging that thing down the row is not pleasant, but it keeps the baby safer and more comfortable (and comfort often leads to sleep 🙂 ).

 Typically you do not have to buy a ticket for a child under the age of 2 years if you will be holding him or her on your lap the entire time… but how long is the flight? Do you really want to hold your child that long? If there are empty seats, often the airline will put that seat next to you for your child, but this is never a guarantee.

If you decide not to buy a ticket and hope there is an empty seat, ask at check-in and then again at the gate. If there is a chance for an empty seat, keep your carseat until you are at the gate… you can always gate check it if a seat does not open up next to you. You do need to let the airline know you are traveling with an infant, even if you don’t buy him a ticket.

 If a meal will be served, contact your airline in advance and request a child’s meal so you have a better shot at kid-approved food.  If a meal will not be served, be prepared with snacks or a meal to carry on. You cannot bring drinks (or other liquids) from outside of the airport with you.

 Dress all kids in comfortable clothes with shoes that come off and on easily so you can get through the security line faster. Tying all those shoes can take awhile when people are behind you waiting to get by! The security checkpoint can be a little intimidating, especially when there are lots of travelers waiting in line while you get the kids ready to go through. Familiarize yourself with the guidelines and be prepared to fold your stroller. http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm

 If only one adult is flying, consider calling your airline to see if whoever is taking you to the airport can walk you to your gate and/ or meet you at the gate upon arrival. (Usually they can by leaving their driver license at the ticket counter.)

 Time to fly:

Just before boarding, make it a requirement for everyone to go to the bathroom and/ or change diapers. You can never be sure when you’ll be able to get to the bathroom on the plane.

 Take advantage of the opportunity to pre-board so you can get settled. Some parents prefer to board last, so their kids aren’t on the plane as long, but I have found that boarding early makes it easier to get down the aisle to the seats and it gives me more time to get everyone settled.

 If you are traveling with an infant, consider delaying his or her feeding until take-off. If you can make your child suck during take-off and landing, you can relieve the pressure in her ears. Often I would keep the baby in a sling, nursing until we reached or cruising altitude, then I would make the transfer to seat or bassinet.

 If your seats are not together, be as polite as possible with the agents at check in and at the gate. They will understand your situation and help you as they can. If it is not possible for them to put you together, board during pre-boarding and ask the flight attendants on board to help you ask other travelers to relocate.

 Prepare your kids for the trip. Let them know what to expect in terms of the flight and let them know what you expect from them in terms of their behavior.  If it is their first time, read books about airplanes and get them excited for that part of the adventure. As you board and walk by the cockpit, point it out to them.

 And remember, your kids’ attitude often is a reflection (and magnification) of your own. Try to get your “game face” on and look for the fun in flying… Potentially frustrating things WILL happen. Your reaction to them is what will determine the tone of your trip. Be ready to go with the flow.

 And remember, no matter what happens on the plane or in the airport, you will most likely never see all those people again. So manage your family as best you can and stop worrying about what everyone else thinks. (But do try to be friendly to those around you. That way, if your child does do something crazy or offensive, it won’t be received as poorly.)

Special notes for long-haul flights:

Larger planes have bassinets for babies 20 pounds or less. If you are traveling internationally with a baby, ask about a bassinet when you book your flight. Ask again when you check in at the airport.

 I typically pack a small rolling suitcase with extra clothes, diapers and snacks beyond what I would normally bring as a back up. This suitcase goes in the overhead bin and typically stays there the whole flight. By packing all my extras separately, they don’t take up valuable space in the regular carry-on, yet I still have what I might need, say, in the event of an extra 4 hours on the runway before take-off. Check with your airline so you know how much you can carry on. And if you will be changing airlines, check all of their policies.

 If you intend to give your child any type of sleep aid, talk you your pediatrician first.

 Consider where you are going when trying to determine how to manage jet lag. I try to get everyone on the new schedule as quickly as possible. When flying east, I try to get the kids to sleep on the plane so they will be as ready as possible for a full day upon arrival. When returning to the States flying west, I try to only let them nap so they will go to bed at nighttime when we arrive home.

 Like I said, I hope this helps! If you have any suggestions for what has worked for you, please leave a comment. I’m always looking for good advice!

 So now you know what to carry on the plane and how to survive the flight.  Check back Monday for tips on what else to bring (or leave at home).

 

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First in a Mom’s Toolbox series on traveling with the kids
Packing to travel by yourself is a snap. Packing to travel with your children is a whole new experience. Hopefully my experiences in traveling with kids can help make your trip even better. Here are a few things I tend to pack for carry-on to make travel more fun:
And on that note of packing, don’t carry it all yourself. From the time each of my children could walk, each carried his or her own backpack filled with all the fun stuff. I just carry the essentials, backups and a few extra entertainment options. And, of course, be sure your bags fall within the allowance of your airline. Check your airline’s website for details.
So what’s in those magic backpacks?
Stickers.These are great for sticking on paper, cups, seats, Mom… whatever. (Just be sure to clean them up at the end of the flight.) You could tell stories with the stickers, place them in books, or just give your child a sheet and let him go crazy. One of my kids likes the repositionable sticker books, but the others never took to them. To that end, a friend of mine swears by Colorforms to stick on the window or tray, but we’ve never tried them… we’ve had too much fun with the stickers.

Blank notebook or inexpensive scrapbook.You can use this for those stickers or for coloring, drawing, journaling or creating your own scrapbook as you go. (Plus, if you need scratch paper in a pinch you can always snag a piece.) We often go the scrapbook route and develop pictures along the way. We have pictures and drawings from friends met all over the world. And decorating the pages took lots of beautiful time.

Glue stick. Great for lots of on-the-go crafting. But remember, you cannot fly with scissors, so only bring this if you have shapes or scraps to adhere. You could cut a bunch of shapes before the flight and stash them in a zip bag. (Don’t worry about getting too creative here. I just punch a lot of the same shapes from my scrapbooking punches on scrap paper and we’re good to go. It’s the process you are working towards here, not a masterpiece finished product.) You could also bring magazines or use the inflight magazine to go on a scavenger hunt through the magazine and rip out specific pictures and stick them in the notebook. (Look for babies, happy grownups, interesting buildings, flowers, things that start with a particular letter…)

Markers, pencils or crayons. This goes with that notebook and any other activity books you may bring. Consider Crayola’s new triangle crayons which won’t roll off the tray for the younger kiddos. I usually slip the crayons and other art supplies inside a plastic zipper pencil bag. This makes them easier to find and more difficult to lose.

New magazines or activity books.Or download activity pages off the internet and put them in a bradded folder to make your own activity book. I like the magazines like Highlights and Ranger Rick that have stories and activities. Activity books with ‘magic’ markers that reveal hidden ink are a lot of fun.

Lightweight books. You don’t want to weigh down those backpacks, but reading is always a good idea, so go with the paperbacks if you can.

Small pad of sticky notes. Almost as good as stickers. My kids love to stick them everywhere.

Small toys.My boys have been entertained by Legos and small cars for hours at a time. (Yes, HOURS.) Don’t underestimate the power of simple, classic toys. You might consider packing tray or box to hold the Legos to keep them from dropping.  Likewise, my daughter is well-entertained by a little bag filled with bracelets and necklaces or her baby, its clothes and a bottle.

Empty sip or straw cup or water bottle. To use during the drink service and lower the chances of spilling during turbulence. Just be sure it is empty when you go through security for obvious reasons.

A few snacks to be eaten whenever your child wants… oh the freedom! Pack something fun and an old standby.

And the really magic item… a lollipop. This is for takeoff and landing (I pack the second in my bag.) so your child will be sucking and consequently alleviate the potential for ear pressure and pain. If your child is too young for a lollipop, consider nursing/feeding, a pacifier or a sip cup (fill it with something after security so you’ll be ready for takeoff.)You can usually find safety pops at a dollar store for the younger ones. My children know they may not eat the lollipop until we are cruising down the runway and about to takeoff. Don’t let them begin licking when you first push away… you might sit there a long time. I don’t worry as much about landing for the older kids, but I do try to get the younger one to snack on some crackers or drink on the way back down for the same reason.

What about movies and video games? Bring them, but try to hold off as long as possible, unless you are nearing a melt-down. We try to have them as tools (bring earphones and extra batteries) but not rely on them too much. This means when we REALLY need them, they always do the trick. On one flight it was not possible for all of us to sit together. So, on a three-hour flight, our two boys, then almost 3 and almost 5 years, had to sit a few rows away from us. And we knew the movie would keep them happy for the bulk of the flight.

Depending on the age, your child might pack a few of the items himself. But don’t let him pack the whole thing… that would spoil the mystery and excitement. And beware of packing all brand-new to you items… you might want to give new toys a test-run a few weeks in advance to avoid packing any duds. Just stash them away once you know they are winners so the newness doesn’t wear off. (This is a great time for toy-swapping with friends. And cleaning out the depths of your own kids’ toy stashes a few weeks before the trip might yield some old long-lost favorites, perfect for resurrection on the flight.)

And what’s in my bag? It depends on the length of the flight, but I typically pack extra clothes as required by each child’s age, extra snacks, the laptop for movie-watching and the movies, extra batteries, my digital camera (this can be entertaining for them, as well), my ipod with my music, kid music, a few narrated children’s books and children’s tv shows, tissues, wipes, water bottle (filled in the airport), gum, a magazine or book and my journal. I also bring extra zip bags for whatever may come up and extra return address labels to stick on anything that needs my address.

Bring a plastic bag to collect it all the trash you will accumulate through the flight (A plastic grocery bag or a bag from buying something at the newsstand will work.) and just give it all to the flight attendant at the end of the flight. Otherwise, who knows what you’ll be holding while trying to cut food/ read stories/ start the movie/ explain how much longer the flight will be. My flight attendant friend pointed out that bringing your own trash bag might also help out in the airsickness department… aiming for the tiny bag the airlines provide may not always be successsful with a little one. (Yuck! Better safer than sorry!)

You might consider bringing a few things for airport entertainment, as well. Here are a few things that have worked for us:  a gallon zip bag of Legos and other small toys, a beach ball to inflate and play toss, a small bottle of bubbles (like the ones given as party favors. You’ll need to put it in your zip bag of liquids and declare it at security.) The bubbles are great for all sorts of waiting times: waiting to check in, waiting to board, waiting for luggage, waiting for the rental car…

Okay, now that you know what to pack for the plane, you are probably wondering what else you can you do to make your travel days go smoothly…

Check back here Friday when I share more travel tips on breezing through the airport, flying with ease and arriving at your destination with a smile on everyone’s face. (Okay, so it might not be THAT good. But I’ll share some tips to make it more likely.)

In the meantime, if you’d like to check out all sorts of real-life solutions to all sorts of other things, check out Works for Me Wednesday at Rocks in my Dryer.

 

 

 

 

 

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My husband and I like to travel with our kids. A lot.

This week my to-do list is telling me to get a new passport for our six-year old. His first one has expired. And before we use that passport for an end-of-the-summer trip, I’ll be packing suitcases and backpacks for another week-long excursion to visit family and friends. (My husband will accompany us for only part of that trip. I’ll drive with the kiddos to our second destination and then fly home with the three of them solo.)

Six years of flying, driving, and traveling with kids in general has yielded a lot of lessons and a lot of great memories.  And now that I’m blogging, I thought this would be the perfect spot to share some of the things I’ve learned through those experiences. Hope my tips help your trip to be even better… or inspire you to pack that suitcase and just go for it for the first or second time. By the third you’re sure to be hooked, too.

So get ready to pack those bags. And, to prepare to for take-off, check out Mom’s Toolbox tomorrow to see what I pack to carry on for a plane trip. Then, on Friday, I’ll share my tips on what you can do to make your airport experience even better. Monday I’ll share ideas for what else to bring (or leave at home) and suggestions on how you can make your vacation a vacation for everyone.

Fasten your seatbelts, check back tomorrow, and prepare for some more summer fun! It’s not ever yet… even if you are getting back-to-school ads in your mailbox!

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Isaiah 12:2

“Surely God is my salvation; I will trust and not be afraid.

The Lord, the Lord, is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation.”

 Hebrews 9:15

14 How much more then, will the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered himself unblemished to God, cleanse our consciences from acts that lead to death, so that we may serve the living God.

15For this reason Christ is the mediator of a new covenant, that those who are called may receive the promised eternal inheritance-now that he has died as a ransom to set them free from the sins committed under the first covenant.

 

Observation: Again I had a lot of trouble selecting just one verse.

 Again I am drawn to an entire chapter, this time Hebrews 9. It is such a fantastic explanation of why Christ is truly the ultimate sacrifice. But I feel like my simple explanations would not do the Word justice. And that I cannot pull out just one or two verses.

 So please, make time if you can to read all of Hebrews 9 on your own. And ask the Holy Spirit to guide you in your reading. Then you will hear much more than I could write here. You may not hear it right away, but if you keep listening, really listening, you’ll hear what God has just for you.

Now I’ll finish this devotional entry using the Isaiah verse.

Salavation: (from the freedictionary.com)

1. a. Preservation or deliverance from destruction, difficulty, or evil.
b. A source, means, or cause of such preservation or deliverance.
2. Christianity
a. Deliverance from the power or penalty of sin; redemption.
b. The agent or means that brings about such deliverance.

 God IS my salvation. He reminds me of this so often. I should trust always and recognize that my strength comes from him.

 Application: This morning I am thinking of this salvation and trust in a different way than I have before. I’ve already shared my fear issues with you. Since last night, though, I’ve been mulling something else over in my head.

 Yesterday a dear friend had her first baby. Thinking about her becoming a mom has made me think about myself as a mom. She is so calm and patient.  I think she will have some challenging learning curves as any new mom will, but I also think she will be a kind, loving sweet mother.

 I wonder if people thought that about me. But I am not a kind, patient, sweet mother.

 So much I’ve read about motherhood says that it brings out the best in you. Thinking about that is making me think that I’m letting motherhood bring out the worst in me. And I wish I wouln’t let that happen.

 I’m impatient. I get frustrated. I want my kids to conform to my schedule. I want them to get ready to get out of the house quicker. I want them to eat the food I offer without complaint. I want them to be as excited about reading as I am. I want them to want to write and to be good at forming their letters. I want them to just do the things I ask without complaint. And I don’t want to hear how they think I should do things and have to explain to them why I do all the things I do as I do them.

This week my sons asked me why I don’t play the Wii more often. I’m just not a video game person. There are plenty of things I’d rather do. So when they play I usually use that time to get other things done. But when he asked me that, I started to realize that he wants to play with me. He loves the game and wants to do something he enjoys with me. He wants to share his time and his love with me. And so I should do that.

 I’ve realized this week just how selfish I am. I always thought by keeping them busy I could get all my ‘jobs’ done around the house, and a few other things. But I’m forgetting the most important job. The ‘job’ to enjoy and love my children and give them the gift of me. Yes, I do believe that they need to play by themselves and with each other. But they could also use more time with me, doing the things they want to do.

 When I was much younger I remember thinking that I had the most fantastic childhood anyone could ever have and that when I became a mom I wanted my kids to have all the great fun and feel as loved as I did. I remember my mom coming up with all sorts of ideas of interesting things to do and I remember her giving me so much freedom. She was a “go with the flow” mom.

 I am trying to be a “go with the flow” mom, but it is really difficult for me.

 One time when I was in high school (which I know is very different than rearing a preschooler) it was really hot outside and I said to my mom that I just wanted to smear ice cream all over my body.

“Go ahead.” She said.

Ice cream is not that expensive and all I would have to do was jump in the shower when I was done, so she told me to just do it if I wanted.

I decided not to. I didn’t want to clean up all that stickiness!

 I don’t know if she would have allowed that when I was younger, but she probably would have. I, on the other hand, have to really work at getting in the right frame of mind to allow such spontaneity and messiness. And often I focus so much on doing things the ‘right’ way so my kids can have all the advantages I can give them, that I miss just enjoying them. I’m letting Satan in to steal my joy. I need to press that evil right out. God has the power to do that.

 Prayer: Lord, please continue to keep me from evil and calm my fears. And Lord, please be my salvation in parenting, as well. Deliver me from the evil of not enjoying the gifts you have given me in them. Please deliver me from the difficulty of frustration, and impatience. When I get irritated, remind me how you love me even when I disobey.  And help me to show your love to my children and those around me. I want to enjoy the moments you give me, Lord, but so often I look past those gifts and right to my ‘to-do’ list. Please give me discernment to align my priorities with yours. And to parent and enjoy our children as you would have me do. Thank you for being patient and loving with me. And thank you for being my strength and my song. Remind me to call on you. Thank you, Lord.

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Throughout the rest of the summer I am also blogging on Happy to be at Home, a blog hosted by 3 moms with lots of guest bloggers. 

Because I know I cannot be the only mom who tries her best to lovingly pack lunches for her kiddos during the school year which are not also lovingly enjoyed, and because I am determined to pack something my kids will eat and enjoy which will also be reasonably healthy for them, I have launched the Summer Lunch Box Challenge at my house and online. If you’d like to join in our adventures into successful lunching, or if you have any ideas we should try, please click here, read on, and comment away…

I’m having trouble getting my links to work today. If the one above doesn’t work, here’s the address: http://happytobeathome.net/summer-lunch-box-challenge/

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